I’m not much of a drinker, but that doesn’t mean there isn’t a time and a place for it. For me, that would be a dirty martini with Bob on the front deck on Saturday evening after our farmers’ market ends. Since our long market day starts early, Bob is absolved from Saturday evening chores, and time is on our side. We sit together, chat sporadically, listen to Prairie Home Companion, enjoy the girls’ antics, but mostly study the waning light as it illuminates different parts of the forest along the eastern edge of our property. That ritual is followed by the next joy of the night, which is a roasted chicken dinner, and then, by our once-a-week dessert. Saturday night is a celebration we look forward to all week long.
But last Saturday, Mom and Dad were gone on vacation. We had someone come in to do the afternoon chores for us, but the thunder heads on the horizon suggested that sometime in the night, there would be a strong downpour, and the chickens would need to be herded into their shelters before hand.
“Ok, let’s do it now,” I urged him, once we’d unpacked from the market, “so we can go home and not come back.”
“No,” he shook his head, grimacing at the skyline, “it’s still too hot. We need to wait until dusk.”
I sighed. That meant Saturday martinis would be replaced by herbal tea. But at least we’d get to watch the light from the deck, listen to the radio, and enjoy a good dinner.
But when we got home, we had another surprise waiting for us. A bear had broken through our electric fencing and attacked one of our bee hives. Bob madly began trying to re-construct an ad hoc hive to keep the bees from abandoning the site, while the outraged workers set about taking out their rage upon his legs and ankles. I watched briefly from the safety of our screen porch, then set about calling every one of our bee keeping friends and neighbors to find hives and helpful advice.
Carol up at Heather Ridge Farm sat patiently with me on the phone and talked me through the procedure of nailing and strapping the remaining hives closed. We would have to wait until dark. And we couldn’t procrastinate. The bear would be back.
The martini was already out of the picture. There went the herbal tea, as well. There went the nice dinner. And if we were to be so busy, it wouldn’t be worth bothering with dessert, either.
Mark and Lissa down the road had a spare hive they weren’t using.
Heather next door told me to bring the kids over and she’d watch them while we ran about trying to fix things.
I brought the girls down to Heather’s cabin. I apologized to be interrupting their Saturday night. She shrugged her shoulders. “Take all the time you need.”
Bob and I then drove down to the farm to exchange the car for the pick up before heading out to Mark and Lissa’s. Lissa led us through her barn to find all the pieces, then helped us load the hive into the truck. “We’ll try to get this back as soon as possible,” Bob assured her.
“No,” she waved her hand at us. “Take all the time you need.”
By this point, the light was beginning to fade and the intense heat of the day was finally letting up. We drove to the farm to put the chickens in. As we arrived in the back field, we were greeted by the calls of a few evening thrushes, and the site of contented happy chickens, just settling in for the night. We both sat quietly for a moment in the truck, studying those darkening storm clouds. The impulse was to rush, to rouse the birds and hustle them in to their shelters as quickly as possible, to get back to fixing this beehive mess, to get some supper, to find a way to move our hives out of the danger zone before thunder, lightening and a return visit from a bear with a sweet tooth.
But rushing, in this business, results in further complications and disasters. A bird could be injured or killed, one of us could fall and get hurt, or our nervous energy could just make the livestock completely unwilling to comply with our herding. We needed that second in the truck to transition, to lose our tension, and to stop worrying. I repeated in my head the words from both Heather and Lissa “take all the time you need.” I gave thanks that I live in a community where folks understand the nature of growing food.
That’s a funny quirk about this business we are in. Urgency comes often in the throes of the growing season, but a panicked response will inevitably create more urgency, and possibly catastrophes. As we slowly coaxed and scuttled the birds into their shelters for the night, talking softly, moving with care, I thought about the stereotype of the rural farmer — the plodding bloke who speaks slowly, who never seems in a hurry, whose brain function seems moronic when compared to his urban cousin. It was true that we could hear thunder rumbling. It was true that the bear would come back. It was true that we hadn’t eaten all day. But unless we took all the time we needed, our problems would only increase in number.
It was a long night. We worked until well after dark, then breathed a sigh of relief once the storm finally rumbled its way into our front field. We trusted that not even a bear would be interested in coming out in thunder and lightning. Bob rigged up lights to shine on the hives, and spent the remainder of the night on the screen porch, just to be certain. We slept a few hours, then woke before the sun came up to finish moving the hives.
And in the end, we got it all done. The chickens were safe. The un-damaged hives were relocated. The angry workers got a new hive (although they are still inclined to make a punitive sting now and then).
As I reflect over this past weekend, I recognize how time is the most essential ingredient when producing food in a sustainable fashion. But it cannot be saved. It must be taken. Watches and clocks mean little. So long as something is growing, daylight and weather are the arbiters of the schedule.
As for the martini and the roasted chicken and the Saturday night desserts, there will be next Saturday. And if not, come next winter, we’ll make up for it beside the fireplace, when we can take all the time we need.
Laura Grace Weldon
What a clear example of a larger principle. Speeding up the pace of our lives doesn’t “save” time. It takes us out of the particular moment we’re in, our minds churning relentlessly ahead. Today’s hurry up approach is applied to education, medicine, finance, and yes, farming. In most cases it hasn’t improved the experience or outcome one bit. Taking all the time we need is a far more natural approach. Thanks for this reminder Shannon.
Tatiana
You are so right, take your time, but don’t take out your time for yourselves. Also found this on bear problems-EFFECTIVENESS OF DETERRENTS ON BLACK BEAR http://humboldt-dspace.calstate.edu/xmlui/bitstream/handle/2148/296/Final%20Thesis.pdf?sequence=1
Also see bear biology on polar bears, which are tougher but this is helpful to know and the same theories apply.
http://www.bearbiology.com/fileadmin/tpl/Downloads/URSUS/Vol_7/Miller_Gary_D_Vol_7.pdf
Then their is ammonia rags http://www.backpacker.com/community/ask_buck/163
You will need to read, review, and pray for the best smallest risk solution possible.
I always remember the p’s-patience, perseverance, peace, and prayer, it does go a long way, besides haste makes waste. God will always let you know when you have to sacrifice something because it is clear concise and does not hurt the ones you love. We walk the perimeter of the property with our dogs, and when we stop doing that the animals move in closer, they need to smell your limits so to speak and they will see you with the dogs, also stagger the time you do it, and you will be watched by these creaturs as they need to survive too. Also never look like prey but a large lumbering bear in charge ( I know that sounds weird but with snakes you also walk nice and predictable in the grass so they can move away and so the same is true for animals of any kind). Also looking bigger than you are also is a deter ant for them, so choose colors and not small patterns if any in choosing clothes. Also drop hair from yourselves and dogs on the ground or in a fabric bag that hangs somewhere, panty hose usually does not rot and can used again and again.
Last rule for us is all good things take time, so try to enjoy it, make sure you hug and kiss for a job well done, a tired body loves that. We shall pray for this trial to be a blessing in disguise. Happy Saturday, and then perhaps a different day when the tricky bear comes back? Peace and prayers, Tatiana
Chelsie
Just recently my best friend said to me, “I want to appreciate you.” My eyebrows went up in curious anticipation and she continued, “I want to appreciate you for being late to your birthday party”. I laughed…and she said “because you didn’t stress about it”. She continued to relate how she had been on her way to meet with a client the day before and couldn’t find a place to park and it was making her late and she started stressing and then remembered how I just kind of shrug off being late when there’s nothing I can do it about it. So she tried that on, got back into her flow, found a place to park and met with her client with out bringing all that stress into the meeting with her. She said, “It was a new experience for me and I’m really grateful”.
When I was a nanny I stopped wearing a watch and resolved to live in “kid time”. However long it took to buy groceries or walk to the park or check out books at the library was how long it took. I realized that rushing through everything so we could get to the next thing wasn’t fun for any of us and that we had a blast together doing the simplest things-like ringing up our own groceries in the self checkout line at the grocery store or checking out our own books at the library, despite the heavy sighs of those waiting in line behind us 😉 Learning to stay in the moment and take all the time we need is a valuable one and maybe just maybe that seed was planted in the folks waiting in lines behind us…