This story ends with Bob dropping his pants on the edge of a lake in the Adirondacks, mooning a group of people on a motor boat. My task is to figure out how we got to this moment — Where a 65 year old man — dignified, kind, and recognized by our community, friends and […]
Ringing in the New Year
It was a joyful tearful moment. Bob finished his treatment at The Proton Center last week. Saoirse and Ula came down to be there with us. He rang the bell to celebrate the end of his treatment and banish the cancer from his body. We hope. We walked out of The Proton Center and took the […]
The places I find myself.
This is such a strange moment. We blew into NYC on a wind of positivity, prayers and blessings. We have a place to stay for the duration of Bob’s radiation, with a “back-up list” of alternative places to stay should we need it. We have so many good wishes, help with driving, help for affording […]
One Day at a Time
If I have to hear “One day at a time,” “One thing at a time,” or “One step at a time,” ONE MORE TIME, I SWEAR IT WILL BE THE LAST TIME!!! We’re sitting in the urologist’s office, one framed print of a vanilla-looking mountain on the wall for inspiration, one 3-d plastic model of […]